BE PROACTIVE (MOTIVATION FOR TEENS )

                                                     HABIT 1: BE PROACTIVE

                                                            I'M THE FORCE

HABIT 1 SAYS "I AM THE FORCE.I AM THE CAPTAIN OF MY LIFE . I CAN CHOOSE MY ATTITUDE.I'M RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS OR UNHAPPINESS.I'M IN THE DRIVER'S SEAT OF MY DESTINY,NOT JUST A PASSENGER."

            BEING PROACTIVE IS THE FIRST STEP TOWARD ACHIEVING THE PRIVATE VICTORY.

EACH DAY YOU AND I GET ABOUT 100 CHANCES TO CHOOSE WHETHER TO BR PROACTIVE OR REACTIVE . 

 ARE YOU REACTIVE OR PROACTIVE?????????

              YOU DON'T HAVE TO RESPOND THE WAY EVERYONE ELSE DOSE,OR THE WAY PEOPLE THINK YOU SHOULD.....

                                                        THE CHOICE IS YOURS.........

 REACTIVE PEOPLE MAKE CHOICE BASED ON IMPULSE. THEY ARE LIKE A CAN OF SODA POP . WHEN LIFE SHAKES THEM UP A BIT, THE PRESSURE BUILDS AND THEY SUDDENLY EXPLODE ....

PROACTIVE PEOPLE MAKE CHOICE BASED ON VALUES . THEY THINK BEFORE THEY ACT. PROACTIVE PEOPLE ARE LIKE WATER . SHAKE THEM UP ALL YOU WANT ,TAKE OFF THE LID, AND NOTHING. NO FIZZING ,NO BUBBLING, NO PRESSURE. THEY STAY CLAM , COOL, AND IN CONTROL....

                                                LISTEN TO YOUR LANGUAGE

YOU CAN USUALLY TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PROACTIVE AND REACTIVE PEOPLE BY THE LANGUAGE THEY USE . REACTIVE LANGUAGE USUALLY SOUNDS LIKE THIS :

       "THAT'S ME. THAT'S JUST THE WAY I AM."

    WHEN YOU ARE REACTIVE IT'S LIKE YOU ARE GIVING SOMEONE ELSE THE REMOTE CONTROL TO YOUR LIFE AND SAYING , "HERE, CHANGE MY MOOD ANYTIME YOU WISH ." PROACTIVE LANGUAGE , ON THE OTHER HAND , PUTS THE REMOTE CONTROL BACK INTO YOUR HANDS .

                                                                   Thank You !!!!

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