All About Our Habit

So when someone is rude to you, do you reply him rude back? If not where do you get the power to resist being rude? So from now just Push pause. sometimes life is moving so fast that we instantly react everything out as we are having a habit of reacting. If we can learn to pause, get control and think about how you want to respond, you will make a smart decision. Now, when your life is on pause open your toolbox.   There are four tools which are called human tools which will help you to decide what to do.   These human tools are as follows 1. Self awareness,it means that, we can stand apart from ourselves and observe our thoughts and action. so for a while stop thinking about a self and think about our thoughts and action, is our action of thinking is good for the person to whom we are talking, can this reply hurt him and there could be an effect on our relationship. 2. imagination, it is a remarkable gift. It allows us to escape our present circumstances and create...

 'can do' Being  proactive really means two things:- First take responsibility and second have can do attitude  Can do is basically a thinking with think in this manner you are first a creative person and second a persistent. American aviator Elinor Smith once said it has long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them.   To reach your goal in life, you must seize the initiative. If something happens bad to you or your doing something against your will do something about it don't set like a sulk. On the way out of it be friendly and try smiling a lot. Don't wait for perfect job to fall in your lap, go after it. Be bold. Some people think can do attitude is what being pushy, aggressive or obnoxious. Wrong. Can do attitude is what being courageous, persistent and smart. For example you are in supermarket you need some assistance, so don't wait for salesperson to find you but find him. People th...

It Pays To Be Proactive  1.  My sister always says bad about me , means all the time . Once I decided to be proactive that is ,I will just be cool and ignore her . Whenever she says bad about me, I made it a challenge to treat well in return .    Often all it takes is one person to create a friendship . 2. Admit your mistake, and apologies for it . When you admit your mistake ,you create a new impression in front of public.  We aren't either completely proactive or reactive but probably somewhere in between. So, we have to try things proactive and it will be your HABIT . 3. We Can Control Only One Thing. The fact is we can't control everything that happens to us, like we can't control where our ancestors came from, who are our parents etc.      But we can control one thing that is HOW WE RESPOND TO WHAT HAPPENS TO US. This is why we need to stop worrying about things we can't control and start worrying about things we can. Now m...